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Hello, My (Late) Thirties

In the spirit of never (or at least trying not to) missing a birthday post, here I am about to post something that reflects my current state. Subscribed to this online Substack, I decided to do answer questions from their profile series which I think is a good, short, fun way to depict the what’s currently up with me. We’re all about the low effort high impact here, right?

  1. My hometown is Jakarta, but home is currently in Cebu, and of course, the internet.
  2. I live in Cebu City, Philippines, and have been living here since 2012. That’s 13 years now.
  3. The one thing I miss most about my hometown is the privileges and luxuries that came with being a child of expats; the Indonesian food, and just my overall childhood.
  4. If I was an ice cream flavour, I’d be mint chocolate chip because it’s my all time favorite.
  5. My spirit animal is a bird because being able to fly must be a really beautiful thing.
  6. The soundtrack to my life is Maybe Tomorrow by Stereophonics. The song itself is a soundtrack, but also the lyrics are incredibly simple yet so profound.
  1. As a child, I used to want to become a journalist and study journalism. Little did I know I would grow up into such a scaredy cat.
  2. Now I am a Marketing Manager, which still involves a lot of writing and reporting.
  3. But, in another life, I’d be jet-setting high earning digital nomad without much fear. Or a lead singer in a Top 40s cover band. That’s like a not-so-secret dream of mine.
  4. The “pinch-me” moment in my career so far is that I don’t really have isolated pinch-me moments because where I work, I’m surrounded by quite a number of high profile people which includes those in the public eye. It’s also quite humbling to see them in their “regular” state. I’ve had many pinch-me moments in my personal life, though!
  1. I am currently listening to XG a lot these days. What a talented girl group.
  2. My last three liked tracks on my Spotify are Somedays by Sonny Fodera, Jazzy, D.O.D, Blessings by Calvin Harris & Clementine Douglas, No Bad Vibes by Jazzy & Kilimanjaro. Is it obvious I’m currently on a Jazzy phase? Coincidentally it’s my childhood nickname too.
  3. The last book/movie/article/podcast/artwork that left an impression was this article on Tatler Asia that writes about how Thailand may be the next soft power giant coming from Asia, especially in entertainment.
  1. My most recent well-spent splurge was these Comply memory foam ear tips for my AirPods. The reason why it’s such a splurge coz it costs like, what, 10% of how much AirPods Pros cost? Kinda crazy. But I have this issue with my AirPods always sliding out of my ears because I have oily skin, so these foam tips have been really amazing!!! I had to wait until I needed to buy a few more things from Amazon to reach the $50 free shipping to PH, that’s why it took so long to check out, heh.
  2. I can never leave the house without any sort of lip product.
  3. My go-to outfit of the moment is a basic skort preferably in black color, a basic tee, and really comfy footwear.
  4. The shoes you’ll see me wearing most are either my dupe of Alaïa fishnet ballet flats that I got for super cheap, a variation of slip-ons or slides that’s perfect for Cebu weather and lifestyle, or sneaker days like the very comfy Nike Dunks and adidas Sambaes (yes the platform ones because I’m a shorty). I recently bought the New Balance 1906R in my last trip to Taipei and it’s super comfy, but I’m still getting used to wearing dad shoes.
  5. The scent you’ll smell on me is any of these EDTs (EDPs give me migraines!) — Miss Dior Rose N’Roses, Blooming Bouquet, or Hermes Eau des Merveilles. Recently I’ve been really loving Diptyque L’eau Papier but I’ve yet to get the full-sized.
  1. On my bedside table, you’ll always find my AC remote, a charger, and recently a mouth tape. I’ve yet to see the long term effects but recently it’s been really good for my sleep.
  2. You’ll always find some kind of lip product inside my bag. Any kind!
  1. My idea of self-care is not thinking about anything. Much of my work is related to thinking so much, making decisions, and always being in front of a screen. So turning off my brain and rolling around in bed in such a privilege that I need to enjoy.
  2. The one healthy habit I cherish most is drinking water. I drink so much water. And eating greens. I like greens!
  1. The type of vacation I crave for most is just staying at a beautiful resort and enjoying its amazing amenities without needing to go out and explore. I’ve come to really accept that I am not the adventurous type, as much as I love and get to travel.
  2. My ideal Saturday afternoon is cafe hopping, slowing down, visiting new lifestyle spots, spending an afternoon at the beach, etc.

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