This changes a lot. But currently:
“Does he love me? Does he love anyone more than me? Does he love me more than I love him? Perhaps all the questions we ask of love, to measure, test, probe, and save it, have the additional effect of cutting it short. Perhaps the reason we are unable to love is that we yearn to be loved, that is, we demand something (love) from our partner instead of delivering ourselves up to him demand-free and asking for nothing but his company.”
The Unbearable Lightness of Being by Milan Kundera
I love this quote! Everyone should read it and learn from it haha! Sometimes I think the reason why relationships get complicated is because we always demand for something more, we always measure, we always compare which should really not be the case.
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